“I Remember The Pain Vividly” — Biodun Stephen Opens Up on Circumcision, Intimacy, And Cheating
✍️ By Teju/ February 17, 2026/ 2:10pm
Nigerian filmmaker Biodun Stephen has sparked conversation online after sharing deeply personal thoughts on circumcision, intimacy, and relationships during a candid discussion.
Recalling her own experience, Biodun revealed that she was circumcised at the age of six — a memory she says remains painfully vivid. She described the moment in detail, remembering the mat, the afternoon, and the physical pain, noting that the experience is something she can still picture clearly years later.
When asked about the possible aftereffects of circumcision, the filmmaker spoke honestly, explaining that the impact often depends on how severe the procedure was. According to her, some women struggle with intimacy afterward, including difficulty enjoying sex or experiencing orgasm, a reality she believes is rarely discussed openly.
The conversation later shifted to relationships, where Biodun shared her unconventional stance on infidelity. She revealed that cheating is not a deal breaker for her, adding that the simplest and most effective consequence for a partner who cheats is to walk away.
“You have to pay,” she said, emphasizing that choosing to leave rather than engage in prolonged conflict is, in her view, the strongest response.
Her openness has since generated mixed reactions online, with many praising her honesty while others debated her views on both circumcision and cheating. Regardless, the discussion has once again highlighted the importance of addressing sensitive topics openly and without shame.
